Hard Guy in Love? Timi Dakolo Has Something to Say
So you’re a certified hard guy… until love walks in.
Timi Dakolo, the chorus leader himself, captures this moment perfectly in “Hard Guy” a soulful, feel-good track that might just melt even the coldest heart.
In the song, Timi sings from the perspective of a man who prides himself on being emotionally guarded. But when love hits, everything changes. Suddenly, this “hard guy” is buying flowers, writing love letters, planning for two, and staying up late on FaceTime. He even starts showing up for midweek church service, all just to be close to her. If that’s not love, what is?
The music video takes the sweetness up a notch, with Timi’s real-life wife, Busola Dakolo, playing his muse. Their natural chemistry adds a warm, personal layer to the story.
“Hard Guy” is both humorous and heartfelt, a confession of how love can break down walls we didn’t even know we had. The once-unshakable man now finds himself needing her, missing her, and canceling hangouts with the guys just to be around her. Before long, he’s saying “yes, baby,” craving hugs, and doing things he once swore he never would.
At its core, this song is a reminder: love softens even the hardest hearts. Timi Dakolo delivers that truth with warmth, soul, and just the right amount of humor.
The track is from his latest album, The Chorus Leader, released last year.
Watch the video below and prepare to smile.